Our messy love story....We meet working at the arbors of Bedford nursing home. Jimmy worked in the kitchen and ha a bad reputation for sleeping with all the new young girls and a 2 pump
Chump. I was a newly single. We found each other absolutely gross. I thought he was to cocky, skinny, pale, freckles, total ginger whom couldn't hold himself due to rumors. He found me gross ugly no ass not his type and wierd personality. We both enjoyed karaoke and started
to talk about meeting up as friends for karaoke and party we both were young him 21 me 20. After few fail attempts to meet up we finally did. We ended up all night into next day talking and more (Jimmy says he was looking for a one night stand) and than we started talking and hanging out almost daily and been together since. He did propose to me within the first 2 months of hangining out (it was about week into officially dating). We've had ups and downs, the bumps in the road of our relationship have just brought us closer together. We really tell each other every thing from our past to day to day occurrences. We admit the meeting of us was not so clean but we are close and honest with each other and couldn't imagine life married to any one else. Surprisingly he is the one who wanted marriage, we discussed it on and off with no rush. Then, we decided we wanted a family and it meant a lot to him if we were married first, he said his grandmother loved every one and accepted every one but she was traditional and he wanted to please her even though she had passed on. So we agreed we'd start trying while planning a wedding, we ended up married first due to complications with my body. Me and Jimmy have an honest open relationship; I don't mean we sleep around oh hell no! But we are open about the fact we look at other people and find other people attractive we aren't dead lol. We also are big on sharing responsibilities, he isn't just a working dad he is very active in raising and playing with his daughter. Well there is our messy love story!